There is a definite absence here,
and it is odd when I try to
think about it logically because when
you were last here you were often out with your friends and even took to
sleeping in the basement rather than your room to watch late night TV.
It
shouldn’t seem so odd, but it does because your very existence and your entire
life reside in another zip code, and they are forever removed from my immediate,
grasp, control, but most poignantly, responsibility.
I can only think of your
baby’s face and your feet before they reached the edge of the couch.
I can only
see you singing with Barney about the Noble Duke of York and playing Robin Hood
while you ran around wielding your red drumstick because I wouldn’t buy you any
toy weapons.
I miss your presence here because now you have become a man.
And even though I
love that man…I am proud of that man, and he will always be my son,
he will
never be my baby
again.